Dating Tips for Men and Women: Dating Tips For Women Who Want To Start Off Their Quest For The ONE on The Right Foot.

I know that you're a woman who at some point in your life wants to find and experience lasting love and happiness with a man truly loves and appreciates you for who you are and for whom you can become.

I believe this to be a universal desire amongst men and women.

But the reality is that it's a competitive, dog-eat-dog world out there and there are men out there who will certainly look to take advantage of you just so they can fulfil their own selfish wants and needs. Have you met a guy like this before???

On the other hand, there are also very good men out there who can and want to provide you with the love, affection and loyalty you want and need.

However, finding these men is not necessarily an easy thing to do.

They are either already taken or must be seemingly hiding some place. But the truth is that he is out there and the 5 key dating tips for women that I have compiled below are tips that if you apply them consistently to your dating efforts will help you attract this man into your life.

So if you want to stop wasting months or even years with Mr Wrong and start creating a space for Mr Right to walk in to, I recommend you take these 5 dating tips for women seriously.

Tip #1: Know Exactly What You Want.

One of the biggest mistakes both men and women make when it comes to dating and relationships is that we never really clearly define what we want - from both the relationship and the person we're with.

The clearer and more specific you can be about the two things, the more likely you're to notice it when it turns up and also attract the circumstances into your life.

Could you clearly and specifically answer these 3 questions?

What are the top 3 qualities in a man that will really make you happy?
How do you want to be treated by this man?
How do you want to feel knowing that you're with this man?

It's hard to find the right man if you're unclear or vague about the qualities and characteristics that Mr Right should posses.

Tip #2: Make Sure You Have Solid Dating Boundaries.

If you have wishy-washy boundaries in dating and a man detects this, he will subconsciously lose a bit of respect for you. As a result, he is less likely to see you as relationship material.

Your dating boundaries will set the tone of how any relationship between you will evolve from the beginning.

Boundaries tell other people how they should treat you and how you expect to be treated but they also help you stay congruent to your values and beliefs if you remain loyal to them.

Be clear on what you will and will not tolerate and if he violates a serious boundary, you need to let him go otherwise you'll be compromising your self-worth.

Tip #3: Don't Be A Booty Call.

Third out of the dating tips for women catalogue is avoid starting off as being a booty call, a friend with benefits or a sex buddy.

If you KNOW that what you're really wanting is a committed relationship, you're committing relationship-suicide if you start off this way.

Very rarely does a relationship that starts off this way turn into a Will and Jada story.

Starting off as a booty call or as the woman he has sex with is very much likely to remain that way too.

First impressions count for a lot. If the first impression you give a man is one that communicates you're sex on demand, call you up whenever he wants to get some, you may as well just kiss your hopes of having a long-term relationship with this man goodbye.

Keep your booty off-duty. If you're wanting to have sex with this man, you're going to have to choose your moment and choose it carefully, which brings me to my next tip.

Tip #4: Avoid Having Sex With Him During The First 3 Months.

I remember reading Steve Harvey's book Act Like A Lady Think Like A Man and he talks about the 90 day rule.

This rule basically says that if you're serious about building a long-term relationship with a man and you really want a strong insight into what the man you're dating is about, hold off sleeping with him for at least 3 months.

I totally agree with this principle because the focus during the first few months really should be on getting to know about each others values, personalities, beliefs, goals, interests etc rather than seeing how good one another are in the bedroom.

I know that in today's modern society this isn't the way things tend to go and there are exceptions to most rules but this is one you should really give some thought if you're wanting to convey value to a potential soulmate.

Tip #5: Be A Queen Who's Fit For A King.

If you want a King, stop messing around with the Jokers!

You see, you'll end up with a man you deserve. We all do.

If you want to attract and keep and King, you should do everything within your grace to make sure you're a Queen.

Strive to be the best you can be, all of the time. Aim to be the type person you're trying to find and it will make the process of capturing your soulmate easier.

And Finally....

These 5 dating tips for women will start you off in the right mindframe when it comes to dating men.

Getting clear on what type of man you want in your life, how you wish to be treated within that relationship and the boundaries you need to have in place that will make the right type of men be attracted to you is of extreme importance.

Some of these dating tips have touched on boundaries such as not being a booty call and applying a 3 month rule but one of the biggest dating tips here is that you strive to become the woman (a queen or princess) that a man (king or prince) desires.

If you constantly work on your personal development, you're much more likely to able to attract and keep a higher quality man into your life.